A few days ago, my friends and I were talking about this acquaintance of ours. Let’s call her Z.
Z is extremely judgemental. She believes that everyone else should adapt to her way of thinking and behave the way she deems right. If we should “fall out of line”, Z would be quick to say nasty things about them. I think the problem with her, is that she is quite well to do, with her flashy shoppings and fat paychecks, she does not understand why some people (commoners like us) do the things we do.
Some of us leave jobs because we do not work for the money, we want a job where yes, it may pay the bills, but also to give us some satisfaction in life.
And while Z is quick to pass judgement on us, she should jolly well reflect on her own life. Despite having a loving fiance, she is screwing around with goodness number of guys and yet when anyone of us, god forbid changes boyfriends, she would say nasty things about us.
Z is what I call a “toxic friend”.
I have long written her off. I don’t see a point being close friends with such an “ugly” person.
Do you have a friend like “Z”? How do you deal with such a person?