Monthly Archives: November 2003


check tis out: so sweet... (courtesy of suk ching)


Message: There was this guy who loved two gals at the
same time but he didn't know which one he loved
more. Someone taught him.

Ask yourself this question and answer it
honestly :
"When you are happy, which gal would you want to
share your happiness with?" The one you think of
is someone you love.

Ask yourself another question and answer it
honestly :
"When you are sad, which gal you want to share
your burden with?" The one you think of is also
someone you love.

If you think of the same gal when you are happy
& sad, that's the most perfect. But if you don't
think of the same gal, I would advise you to
chose the one you are willing to share your
sadness with.

In life, there are more sorrows than happiness.
There are too many people that u meet that u can
share your happiness with, not necessary your

If you live your life happily, you can also
enjoy it alone.

In sadness, however, there are not many people
willing to share your burden with you. If you
are willing to tell someone your happiness, I am
sure that person has got to be someone close &
an understanding person to you.

But it shouldn't stop there. If that person only
thinks of you when she is happy, but looks for
someone else when she is sad, this lover is too
unstable, she doesn't treat you as someone she
can spend the rest of her life with.

Of course, I will be very happy if I am the
first person to share her happiness. But, if she
is sad, I will be too willing to stay by her
side & ease her pain. Only then, will I believe
that I hold a very important position in her
heart. If you are sad, who comes to your mind


Friendship is a strange thing. We find ourselves
telling each other the deepest details of our
lives... things we don't even share with the
families who raised us.

But what is a friend? A confidant? A shoulder to
cry on? An ear to listen? A heart to feel? A
friend is all these ... and more. No matter
where we met, no matter how long we've been
together... I call you friend.

A word so small, yet so large in feeling, a
word filled with emotion, a word overflowing
with love. Truly great things come in small

Once the package of friendship has been opened,
it can never be closed. It is a constant book
always waiting... waiting to be read... and

We may have our disagreements... we may have
our disappointments ...we may argue ...we may
have concern for one another...friendship is a
unique bond that lasts through all tribulations.
A part of each of us goes into our
friendships ... our humor ... our experiences...
our tears.

Friendships are foundations... necessary for
life... and love. Friends .. you and me ... you
brought another friend and then we were
three ...

we started our group ...our circle of friends...

there is no beginning .. there is no end.


Sometimes God wants us to meet many wrong people
So that when the right one comes along, we will
appreciate that person more.

so sweet hor?

so sweet.... dear! got read tis?... if u do, i love u... if not, break ah! muahhahaha



man! woke up tis morning totally feeling horrible, was crying hot tears, (i usually cry when im sick though i dun realise it), head felt really bad and hot and couldnt really sleep. was feeling really really bad. woke up and checked temperature. had a temp of 38.6. oh my! then went for drastic measures. took two panadol extraz. took lotsa vitamin C and took an ice-cold bath (BRRRRR~) then dragged myself to food hunt. was actually contemplating not to go as felt like fainting, but still went as remembered lack of manpower. sad. but i changed with kevin to be colin's asst in station games. was picturing the scenario if i was an FA and my group would be those 'chong' type and i had to run with with group and probably fainted. bleah~ but being at E-ZONE with colin, rachel, hui junand kevin was fun! hee~ was sooooooo happy when i played the pole game and got 50 point all 3 times! hee! fun! but the bad thing was @ debrief. felt tat some ppl was soooo irritating. shoot him indirectly, i mean how can u be a main comm and behave tat way? oh well.... some ppl ALWAYS tink their rite... sighz,,, then went with some of the subcomm and maincomm to makan and play pool. learned a bit but still suck. oh well. eh, some of the subcomm HAPPENING man. and nice too! enjoy their company like sistas and bros man, hee. have a good feeling abt tis yr subcomm... eh, dunno who to select for my assistants for my 'celebration of learning' but at least two lah... k lah... gonna rest liaoz... tomolo got family day event @ jurong! damn...


sick! damn... feel so weak... gonna die soon....



today is actually sat, but updating on yesterday...

let's start, had a severe sore throat yesterday, muz be the mussels in garlic butter sauce, i always eat and eat and eat the sauce till all gone and muz be due to friday's breakfast... hee hee... had soon kueh drowned in sweet sauce. LOL... so throat was feeling all sore and stuff, even felt really scratchy and horrible but not TAT bad, then.... started sneezing like mad... at first, i tot it was my sinus thingy, then realised it was getting REAL bad, so was sneezing real bad, using up lots of toilet roll... for the nose ah, not for... ah nebermind... until my nose skin feels really bad and dry... then felt really grouchy and stuff coz of cold and sore throat... actually wanted to go zouk as got FREE invites... i met dear for dinner... we went to erm tis nice place next to the turkish restaurant @ suntec... oopsy, forgot the name... hee! he had tis salmon thingy (he couldnt eat meat on fridays) and i had the steak.. was really good especially the salad. i finished it SUPER FAST... first time ate so fast. lol... i treated him as last time he treated to pastamania :(, lol... damn, juz calculated my expenses... very tight tis month.. like left oh well, gotta starve a bit... damn... might buy cup noodles... 🙁 .... the place was really nice and the staff were really attentive (see! girls like to be wined and dined, oh well, i wined and dined him...) but guess dear didnt really enjoy himself as his salmon had bones and he was pretty paranoid in swallowing the bones... hee.

then, oh yah, before the dinner, got pissed @ him over de fone matter. man! u tell me reasonable or not? my beloved s300 which i saved for eons was onlie in my hands for less than 2 months and i lent him as he couldnt use camera fones in camp (dun understand then why he bought a camera fone when he jolly well knew he couldnt use it in camp. GUYS!) and he HAD to leave it on his desk unattended and it got stolen. u tell me? u leave a BEAUTIFUL fone on the table unattended, who wouldnt be tempted? so he has to buy me a new fone (de bugga had the cheek to suggest a second fone fone, like real!) of course, i dun want lah. boyfren or not, i value my fone lor.saved like mad for de bloody fone. 600 buckaroos lor, he wanted me to buy de s500 for dunno wat reason but dun like lor. de fone not so nice lor. i tink it is MY fone and i HAVE the FINAL say in wat i want lor. it is onlie rite tat i get de same back. ahhhh! raised my voice @ him and called him unreasonable. i dun regret it. believe wat i did was rite. stupid him.

anyway, after dinner, i was feeling even more lousier and decided to go home straight. actually was @ de bus-stop but was shivering like mad (u know those shiver and u still feel miserably hot), i then made my way back up to suntec to go to de taxi stand. bumped into rachel and michy on the way. lol. then went to de taxi stand and it was horribly long queue. me then called for a taxi, called tibs (6555 8888) but they put me on hold for sooooo long that i got fed up and called comfort insteAd (6552 1111) and got prompt response. since i didnt get a taxi number from tibs, i tot as i disconnected, de booking was cancelled, but then they called when i was on de line with comfort and left a v/m saying my taxi number. thus i had to call tibs to cancel my booking. (so there for their BAD service), i then boarded my wonderful comfort cab when the tibs cab called me. the taxi driver was pissed to hear tat i cancelled his booking as he said he was already there, heck ah. i told him quite curtly tat i already cancelled de booking and any unhappiness, he could solve with his operator. sighz. taxis these days. rude drivers and bad service. ah, coming back to my comfort cab, being the responsible citizen of singapore, i kindly told the nice taxi driver to unwind the window and warned him i was not feeling well. and asked him whether he wanted me to wear a mask as i felt tat i mite be catching a flu bug but de taci driver told me its ok and he juz unwinded his windows. bad thing was he was those friendly and enthusiastic drivers who were chatty and i would LOVE to chat but i was feeling very lousy and lied to him i was gonna take a nap which i did in the end. the bad thing is tat the taxifare costs almost 20 bucks. bloody hell, more and more broke... then toke a nap....

sick sick sick,

Happy Four Months love!


lol. sorry for the delayed bloggy...

didnt do much, slacked de whole day, woke up @ 2pm as i slept @ 5am the nite b4.. was icqing and msning de whole day... bliss!

went out with silly boy.... he refused to let me go eat good food! says abt saving money! bleah! a hospi gal need to be wined and dined! 🙁

thurs (today):
so sianz... went to fish and co to eat (so there silly boy!), and spent lots... oops... OH K OH K! u said so... but it was every damn cent worth it, did a bit of indulgent shopping, bought 3 pairs of earrings, (hey! a girl can neva have too much earrings! :P) and spent time waiting for meeting to start... sianz... wait and wait.... ended @ 1opm (as it started onlie @ 8.30!!!!) and got home late... sianz... tired, gonna concuss in 10 mins...

till then! (sorry for the summary, lazY! :P)