you know that sucky feeling when you get a call which goes like this?
A: “hey, are you going for the bbq/party/dinner/gathering/clubbing outing?”
A: “oops/eh you didnt know?/they didnt invite you?”
and you’ll probably get a call much later cause probably A told the organiser and so on..
or when “friends” only call you when they need help? like perhaps for rates/statistics or what shit for their project? and for months, you have never spoken, until they need help. eh wait, wasnt this the same person who threw you sarcastic remarks while working with you?
or when they ask you out for “coffee” which turns out to be a “you need insurance” or “join my mlm club”?
or when they call you out at the very last minute because they’re bored and everyone else they’ve called isnt free?
or friends that call you out only to borrow $ and never ever return it?
count me out. i rather not have “friends” like these.