Posts Tagged ‘relationships’
None of the guys I dated ever guessed correctly the colour of the roses that I like. Even Tiger, whom I was with for more than 5 years got it wrong. All of them always bought red roses instead. Do I look like a red roses kind of girl?
The perfect shade of orange and red just makes me go weak. With baby breathe and daisies, it has to be at least 6 in a bouquet. What’s your favourite colour of roses?
As some of you guys know, I’m not the typical kind of girl who’ll devote all of her time to her boyfriend. Infact since forever, the boyfriend comes last. Friends, blogging, school, work always took a priority to Tiger.
I do not hang on Tiger’s arm nor do I blow mushy mushy kisses at him or display super PDA tendencies (unlike a certain couple I know. *cough monkeys cough*). We quarrel like mad all the time and we usually snipe and grumble at each other in front of everyone (including his dad who finds this all oh so amusing.)
Totally not a Xiao Nu Ren kind of girl if you get what I mean. Against Marriage, babies and everything else.
But recently….
I seemed to have turned into a loveydovey type of girl. I devote most of my weekends (actually school first lah 
) to Tiger. I kinda miss him when I don’t meet him. (which is usually hardly the case!!) I even proclaimed that I wanted to get married in The White Rabbit! (was there for a Sony event.)
I wonder if this is a sudden “honeymoon” period and we’ll all go back to being all grumpy and old couple-ish again.
Now that he’s overseas, I’m missing him badly. :/
I don’t like the new me!!! :/
Totally unrelated to this week’s Starblog topic. (Apparently some blur toots thought that WYR is set by Starblog editors. Hello! It’s My own random “column”. Doh! Sometimes I MAY set the topic similiar to the Starblog topic of the week since there’s a theme going on.)
Anyway, since we got that all cleared up, this week’s topic is something which probably is something on your mind or your friend’s mine or someone you know. It happens to someone you know etc. It’s that common.
Imagine you’re in a relationship and your partner is someone without a future. He/She isn’t even remotely interested in getting a better education or job. You know that he/she won’t change and you’ll have to be the breadwinner since he/she hardly earns enough to feed himself/herself.
Would You Rather?
1) Dump him/her since he/she can’t be arsed in improving his/her standard of living and you’re sick and tired of trying to motivate him/her. And you do not have the financial means to keep supporting him/her.
OR
2) Stay. Afterall Love conquers all. Something will work out. You’ll continue to try to support him/her.
Choose one and explain why!
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I have this blogger friend Mooiness who is really cool. I love the way he writes and he’s damn funny in person. The only problem is… sometimes I feel like smacking him when he disses girls. I guess I understand where he’s coming from but hey! do listen to our point of view. (Seriously, I wish that a fantastic lady would make him happy one day. No more chicken pie for dear old Moo!)
1. Sometimes we REALLY do not know when a guy is interested in us. Here’s a true story. I have always gotten along better with us, infact my first best friend was a guy and I usually hang out with guys more often than with girls.
Back in Poly, I had a few close guy friends and we hung out quite often. We then drifted apart after graduation and I met up with one of them after a while. I never knew he had liked me since day 1. I had a few such situations. Trust me, I was blissfully unaware. There were no hints, no signs, nothing.
Guys, if you really like us and want to chase us, tell us to our face. Just because we go out with you guys for movies or meals alone doesn’t equate to knowing and acknowledging your “like” and crushes on us. Some of us really enjoy just hanging out as friends. I used to go out every week with my best friend mrkennychan for makan and movies till the bugger went to study in Australia. Bah. There’s such a thing as being just friends you know?
2. If ever a case where you tell us that you like us and we tell you we’re not ready, back off. Personally for me, if I’m not interested in someone, I’ll tell it as it is: “I like you as a friend and nothing more.” If I say I’m not ready for a relationship, it means I’m not ready for a relationship with you. If I wanted time to think and actually am considering you, I’ll say “Give me time.” Simple isn’t it? It’s not our fault if you decide to keep chasing us when we made it clear that we are not interested.
3. Ok, this is contradicting point 2.
So yeah, that’s MY point of view. A few more entries coming soon. (probably after the exams though.)
This week’s question is by the charming and gentlemanly Modernburrow aka PMG.
So here’s the question!
